So, a friend of mine mentioned that she takes off a certain amount off the top for her goal and spends the rest but as I was trying to say (in a conversation that was about to become uncomfortable) is that sometimes, in an effort to take it off the top, you wind up chopping off the knees. Below is a graphic:



Let's say you feel like tithing or donating is important so you take that off the top, then you take some off for your 401K, then you want to max out your roth IRA and you want to put some money away in savings. Next thing you know, you've taken $1500 off the top.
What do you think is the best way to take a little off the top, meet your goals and still be able to live?